WOW!! We can't believe it but 1 year ago today we boarded a plane and left America!! Praise God with us as we celebrate 1 year of being in Africa. It is so hard to believe we've been on foreign soil for a year now. It has been a year of changes, some fun and others not so fun, a year of challenges, and a year of learning more about God and drawing closer to Him. Before we left we had two wise men (Arnett's Uncle Ralph and my Papa Jim) tell us basically the same thing, their words of wisdom..."You kids will have some of the best times of your lives but you'll also have some of the worst!" Not something I wanted to hear! We were moving to Africa and things were going to be great! We were doing what God had called us to do, there was no way we were going to have a bad time, yet alone some of our worst times. However, their wisdom did, in fact, prove to be right on the money!! We have had some of the best times of our lives, however, we've also had some of the worst! We knew life here would be hard but we never imagined it would be this hard!! At first, life was hunky dory. We were in the culture shock phase known as the "honeymoon phase". We were ready to live in Africa for the long haul, if that's what God had planned. While things here were different we saw them through rose colored glasses. We were on a mission from God and that was all we needed!! Then we entered into the "negotiation phase" where everything in the new culture is terrible! We were in this phase for months!! At times we felt like we'd never get adjusted to life here. We were starting to question if we had heard God right. Was He sure this is where we were supposed to be?? Those rose colored glasses were gone and we were left with reality!! While the people were friendly and hospitable, frankly, they were just different and life in Africa was a far cry from life in America. Arnett hated living in a city of 3-4 million people and would rather move to the bush, while I was not crazy about the city, I was extremely not crazy about living in the bush full time!! Finally, we hit the "adjustment phase", where we began to be more comfortable here and life was looking up!! Arnett, still hates living in the city but he deals with it. I've gotten used to going to the bush and could see us living there at least half the time. Life is still hard but we've adjusted rather well. Even though, we still have "ticket days", where we are ready to board the next plane outta here. They are definitely, once again, few and far between. A long cry from the time period where they were at least 5 days out of the week!! We take refuge though, in knowing, despite all the difficulties and hardships, we truly are where God wants us. Even though there are days we still wonder why He's called us here we know that His ways are higher than ours!! And He does indeed have a purpose for us!!
So, now, our plan is to continue learning Bambara, something we thought we'd be done with by now!! We'll start focusing more on learning Bible stories and less on learning language to survive. Praise God, we've been able to get that down pretty well! Our hope is to start building relationships in a village outside of town. We hope to have an open door there to start "storying groups". Arnett focusing on sharing with the men, while I focus on sharing with the women. Arnett will also be helping with our team's farming project this year. So, between those two things and keeping up with Zeke we'll be busy, busy!
Here's a picture of us taken right after we got here.
And here we are now. My how we've changed.
Praises:
- We've survived our first year!!
- We're pretty comfortable living here and are able to get around fairly easily.
- Zeke, children are such a blessing!!
- The Malian friends that we've made throughout the year!!
Of course, I can't type a blog without sharing a few pics of Zeke.
Prayer Requests:
- The work we hope to start in the village, may the villagers be open to hearing about Jesus.
- The farming project, may it go better than last year and may we have workers to come and help with the project.
- Our language learning, may we be able to speak and hear Bambara clearly!
- For good health, physically, mentally, and spiritually!
Another pic of the little guy who keeps us busy, busy, busy!! He's so worth it and we Praise God for him!
We thank you for joining with us in this journey. We couldn't have done it and still can't do it without your prayers and support. Until next time...
5 comments:
As a grandfather, I feel for your parents when they see these pics of Zeke ... he looks SO huggable! God has brought us through, amen? We love you both (and are so very proud of you).
How did you know what I experienced this past year? Have you been in my head? You said what I have felt this past year so well. Thanks for putting it into words that I could say amen to and know that there were others right where I was. Miss you guys bunches...and I would love to squeeze those cheeks of Zeke's. Hope you can get away...our way, because we would love to see you. Ditto on the grandparent view that David shared...being away from kids and grandkids is really tough!
Hey guys! Zeke is absolutely adorable - I love the big, toothless smile :) It's great to hear how your first year has been, how you've adjusted, and what's coming next! Exciting stuff is going on there. You all look great and we will continue praying for you!
WOW..It's so hard to believe it's already been a year!!! We're so pround to call you and Arnett our FRIENDS!!! And proud of your ministry in AFRICA (wow). I love to be able see and read your blog and hear the way God is working in your lives through the blog. Keep your head up and eye's on him...We miss ya'll and are praying for you..Zeke is too CUTE...(I can see he and Gavin are going to be GREAT friends one day!)
We Love You Guys
Jay, Amanda and Gavin
I really can't believe it has been a year. As I type this, my eyes are watery and I am choked up by your wisdom, faithfulness and abounding love for God and your purpose. It is not everyday that people can set aside their wants and follow God's calling. I know that I struggle to hear Him at times. I continue to be awed by the both of you and your willingnes and selflessness to God. I am proud that you are my friends and will continue to pray for you both.
By the way, Zeke is the cutest little boy! You guys make great babies.
Love to you both!
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